#255 3/21/08 Massena Ny formerly Norfolk Virginia I am not one of those kind of people who are looking for free handouts but the type to help. Well here is my story my name is Bobbie Jo and I am legally still a military wife until a divorce is final. My husband cheated on me the whole 7 yrs of marraige. I was the biggest supporter to the active duty as well as to the spouses I did daycare and supported them when they had no money, My husband and his girlfriend made me loose my job in Va and I was forced to move back home with my 4 children, I went to social services and they said 550.00 is too much so we cant get government help, I have no job, on food stamps, and have bills coming in left in right what am i supposto to do I was part of that war as well, worry every day on the operation home front and I need help. I have a rent payment of 675.00 dont have the money 343.00 car payment cant afford it which means me and my kids have no means to go to the next nearest facility who takes childcare, care insurance, lights heats etc........ Im sitting here today in tears wandering why god has given me this life when i cant even afford anything for easter for my kids while he is out buying new vehicles a house and has a big reinlistment bonus while we are sitting here broke. Please help me I am in desperate need