Pet Peeve



You  know, one reason I do not approach young gay men I am
attracted to is because many times while they may have no
interest they react in a very offensive manner upon being approached.

They react with verbal abuse or demeaning and derogatory terms. They
will say things like, why don't you grow old gracefully and go with men
your own age. Young guys attracted to older have issues, need their heads
examined. And go on with a litany of expletives and hurtful comments.

So I make it a point not to approach anyone other than to say I find them
attractive or handsome. I let them come to me if they are interest after
reading an ad or visiting my WebPages. It just doesn't merit my putting up
with ill mannered individuals that lack common courtesy or respect for
others and think only with what's between their legs.

The other pet peeve I have are the individuals looking for a sugar daddy or
simply wanting to sponge or live off someone else.  We get our share down
here and I've been burnt myself sad to say. Because I thought the individual
was sincere and honest. I was wrong!   Now a days I'm pretty cautious and
while still looking for that special guy I have to keep the radar on deflecting
what I call the users of society.

Look I'm a nice guy, and all I seek is another nice guy to fit my likes and his.
I'm not twisting anyone's arm and if I'm not what one seeks there is always a
polite way of saying no without being insulting or rude. 

The relevance of presenting a foto and being truthful is important. I am not
interested in having cybersex or playing head games. I really resent individuals
that will say and do anything online so they can get off.

There are individuals that while young in age are mature and like an older
guy. And vice a versa. One does not have to settle for anything less than
what one aspires for. So if you don't fit the mold don't push it. And if it is
not to your liking -move on without the editorializing, judging and crass comments.
Life is too short and aggravating enough at times to have to deal with small
biased minds.

Thanks
Take your days one at a time and make them count
ME